New Job

I applied for a new job and got it! It feels like everything has changed on a dime but for the better for once. I felt like my soul was rotting away here in my home. I wanted to be out doing things but I had nowhere to go. The first job that I went back to (after 5 years) has been really slow because it's the summer. My stamina is still low but improving and I think my excitement about where I'm going is helping tremendously.

The last few years an idea had developed about the atmosphere I'd like to be in. It actually feels somewhat essential rather than a choice. I need to be in a creative environment working with other creative people. A place where my skills are used and appreciated. Somewhere, where I feel charged up to get home and do some creative work like painting. I thought that would mean me creating that for myself and being self employed.

I tried to rent an itsy bitsy studio space a few months ago but it disappeared as soon as I applied for it. It felt like another small loss in a grand series of losses. I started feeling like there may never be a better space for me, or any place on this Earth. I feel disjointed and like I don't belong. I live in a beautiful neighborhood in the most desirable place in a very desirable city. Gratefully I live in social housing now which has kept us from being homeless but we don't fit in here.

The neighbors don't speak to us and everyone keeps to themselves where I'm used to knowing the people around me. The energy here is bad. I realized why people here won't talk to each other when I had the SWAT team surround my house because the person two doors over was selling drugs and had the neighbor on the other side of me subtly terrorizing me because my son put a millimeter ding on his car door. Our spaces are squeezed together and I have plenty of dings on my car door from the other neighbors and I paid him to have it repaired but this guy went ballistic and threatening. I had to request to move my parking space and avoid him until the day he was hauled away by the police for battering his family. Not so nice.

I'm sure most of the people here are probably nice but we pass by with no eye contact after me trying for 2 years to say, 'Hi' to them. It feels like an alternate universe living here. Beautiful yet as a small complex we are unwelcome.

This loss of feeling in control has hit me hard.

So applying for my first job helped me feel a bit better. Applying for and getting the second has made me feel useful again.

I work part time for a small local clothing design company that is far better than I could have imagined. Where I felt listless, I now feel energised. I'm scared of not physically being able to keep up but so far so good. I'm happy and I honestly can't say when I last felt that. I suspect it was two years ago before I moved here. I need to get out of this place. Getting out of this mountain of debt is going to be one hell of a struggle but at least I will be able to try.

I need to instill a feeling of confidence in me somewhere. I'm so happy to say it has started.

Light

I'm so happy to be home today. Waking up in my own bed was like a dream come true. As I awoke in the morning, still in that almost awake phase, and felt my own blankets around me and my feather mattress topper undreneath me, I held my breath. It took me several moments to realize it was true, I was home. I let out a large long sigh of pure relief. It took another several minutes for my brain to compute what I had done and been through in the last few days and was able to convince myself at the end that everything is okay.

And then I was able to get out of bed.



As the morning has plowed on and I had my mini rituals of tea while reading the paper, washing out my eyes (because of my lack of being able to produce tears) and had a hot bath, a sense of happiness filled me.


When I look out my windows they are filled with sunshine and billowing pink clouds. The blossoms waited for me to get back.

I'm eating something and am going to go for a lengthy walk to let this happiness wash over me. I feel a renewed sense of relief, hope and joy. I have a fleeting feeling that maybe my future might cough up something in my favour after all. Maybe I can get this roller-coaster of a life under control? Maybe I can still rule the world?

Or maybe I'm just having a great day.